Human being comes across different phase of growth and maturity during the life span and one such crucial phase is “Marriage” (An Eternal bonding- Life Partner)” which plays a pivotal role in ones life to evolve as a better person. That is why searching for a perfect Soulmate needs to be judged against various common Qualities of Life Partner so that the couple lives happily ever after.
A marriage of two body one soul is just not a phrase but a heavenly truth since it teaches the different emotions of happiness, sadness, bitterness, depression, failure, joy, greed, jealous, anger, revenge, trust, love, hatred, tears, positivity, negativity, patience and the vast ocean of feelings not to mention the up’s and down’s moments of life.
In Today’s busy life, We tend to forget the importance of choosing a soul mate without actually properly knowing the real person either by not spending time together or do not listen to your inner soul for a answer.
In order to help you find a perfect soul mate before committing marriage we put together,
10 Qualities to Search in a Life Partner before Marriage !!
1. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.
The phrase “beauty lies in the eye of beholder” applies not just to physical beauty but also to anything proposed as perfect and desirable. Physical attraction though its a bitter truth , the first impression to attraction. The person who doesn’t fall for it as the primary quality in a partner but rather approaches to garner and respect the inner beauty of a person are surely to lead a happy life.
2. Trust takes years to built, seconds to break and forever to repair.
The most important factor in a relationship is trust, honesty, believe and respect for each other. When you start getting feeling for someone, you should first ask your inner soul and act by questioning intellectual, calculus brain if you really trust the person with your life?
Trust, believe, respect will normally evolve when you get to know the inner beauty , attitude and character will sub-merge with the feeling of emotion and love.
Every couple have fights and misunderstanding but its the love, trust and believe that keeps the positivity in the relationship. During a doubt or misunderstanding a believer shouldn’t be snooping through phone, private messages, or browsing history. If you are concerned about a specific issue, seat together and sort it out like a mature couple.
3. The Right Amount of Space matters in a Relationship.
The difference between a boy and a man is not age, it’s maturity. Every relationship is different, so the amount of space and time that you and your soulmate will need to spend apart will differ against the trust, respect and believe gained in the relationship.
Every person has his own way of living life whether family, friends, professional colleagues or hobbies. Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.
So knowing how to give space in a relationship, and yet stay together is an art that every couple needs to learn to stay eternally happy.
4. Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break.
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person” the quote is so true. The secret to happy marriage or relationship lies on ones ability and patience to adjust, compromise and admit to short comings.
A soul mate will always act mature enough to adjustment and help each other to deal with circumstances live a true soul and appreciate each other with love whenever possible.
Change is the end result of true learning.
5. It is not lack of love, but lack of friendship that make unhappy marriages.
A soulmate has to be friends on first place, to know each others positive and negative side.
A strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time it is a husband and wife who takes turns to be strong for each other in the moments when others feel weak.
6. Respect and taking care of each other Mom and Dad.
This shouldn’t be even a criteria, morally love for each other parents should be be judged with once upbringing. So respect and taking good care of old parents is every kids duty and a life partner will abide with emotional attachment as his/her parents and take good care.
7. Respect and preserve each other Religious customs, belief’s.
By now you and your soul mate must be well acquainted and understand each other.
One must clear things out about religious and political views before marriage, whether a religious person or an atheist? since it is not only marriage of two souls but even bonding of two families.
8. Get acquainted with each other Family and Relatives.
It is necessary to take out time to get acquainted with each other family whenever there is ample time. Judge how each other family and close relatives get acquainted and if they replica shower of respect and love that they receive.
9. Discuss Child Planning, Financial, and Job related queries.
Ask your would-be about child planning and discuss on timeline for both of you to give ample time and financially strong environment to bring up a child. Another point of discussion is each other job placement and if both are okay about switching job excreta.
I would suggest both side parents to get both kids medical checked before marriage and subsequently plan for life and medical insurance from early stage of the marriage.
BRINGS OUT THE BEST IN YOU: You should always go for someone who brings out the best in you and make you feel at cloud9. To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage.
“I first learned the concept of non-violence in my marriage.” – Gandhi
HAPPY SOUL SEARCHING !